Thursday, June 19, 2014

Weddings with Horses

 

 

Summer is the time for outdoor weddings and a great time to have a wedding with horses!
Today anything is possible when it comes to weddings. Couples are creating themed weddings centered on something they love. So if your ‘second’ love is a horse, why not create a wedding that you can feature your favorite friend.
Whether you choose to have a country themed wedding or an elegant ballroom wedding venue, you can have your love of horses honored by included them.
In a country style wedding the options are endless.
The bride can ride side saddle on a beautifully adorned horse to meet her groom at the altar,
or arrive in a horse drawn country carriage with her escort accompanying her.
Some venue’s I recommend:
Shady Wagon Farm in Hill, NC - http://www.shadywagonfarm.com/
Magnolia Manor Plantation in Warrenton, NC http://magnoliamanorbnb.com/
 
The popularity of weddings with horses should make it easy for you to find a carriage rental. In NC I recommend:                                                                    J & L Carriage. http://www.jlcarriage.com/ located in Raleigh.
 
Should you choose to have your wedding at an elegant ballroom style venue, you can still share your love of horses with your arrival in a beautiful white wedding carriage.

 
There are so many options available for you to have your wedding with horses. So grab the horse by the reins and go for it.
 
If this is your dream come true wedding style 
Contact me today to discuss how to make it a reality!
 
919-373-4267 * Samantha@heart2heart.us 
 
 This wedding video with the bride riding on a horse to the altar gave me goose bumps. Enjoy the possibilities!
 
 
 
 
 
 

Monday, June 16, 2014

Wedding Ceremonies that include your Children


Today, many couples are entering into a marriage with children. Some with children from the bride and children from the groom. Then there are couples where only one partner has children coming into the new family.

A happy New brother & sister

As an experienced Officiant, it is my joy to create a ceremony that allows the blended family to have the children included in the ceremony rather than just a part of the bridal party.

After all, they play a very important role in this newly formed family. To begin a marriage without including them, and making them feel they truly have importance in the new family, could lead to ill feelings.

Teenage children included in the Unity Wedding Tree Ceremony
Whether the children are old enough to walk or not, I have creative ways to include them in your ceremony that will warm the hearts of all.

The photo below shows Rev. Heart with a son from the groom and a daughter from the bride. I did a sweet little “Sibling Vows Ceremony” Where I explained to the children that they were about to become brother and sister; sharing the same home, as well as sharing their mother and father. Next I knelt down to them and asked each one to say “I Do” if they promised to be best brother and sister to one another that they could be. When their little voices were heard over the speakers saying “I Do”, the on looking guests replied “aww!” as their hearts were filled with love for the children too.
Sibling Vows
 There are many more children ceremonies I can design depending on the needs of your blended family and ages.

Unity Candle including your children

 I can guarantee you that it will be a moment in your wedding ceremony that you, and your guests, won’t forget.

Parents Vows to their Children
Please contact me with your request to include your beloved children in your wedding ceremony on 919-373-4267
www.raleighweddingofficiant.com

Monday, June 9, 2014

Using Burlap for your Country Wedding


Burlap for your Country Wedding

Burlap is not just a fad, a passing trend. It's timeless and here to stay. I have had, and continue to have  brides who want a country wedding and love to DIY . Even with hiring out for the decor they still want to help and add their handy work to their wedding. So whether your the DIY bride, mother, family member or wedding planner, this article offers useful information and where to get your burlap.  Thank to http://premiertablelinens.com/  for permission to repost

Burlap – History & Care Instructions


   An Asian native, the jute plant has long been the workhorse of the textile industry. Ancient Indian and Chinese civilizations relied on cloth woven from jute fibers for clothing, household goods and farm chores.



In Europe, Jute was woven into Burlap, also called Hessian cloth, and was used for wrapping bales of cotton or hay and for stitching grain sacks for transporting wheat, barley and rye from farm to mill. In rural homes, Burlap did double duty as curtains and chair covers.



        Today, the quest for ecologically sustainable natural fibers has sparked a renewed interest in this humble cloth. The popularity of simple country style decorating has transformed burlap into a coveted choice for home furnishings. In addition, the trend for rustic themed special events has put burlap on the top of savvy wedding planners’ Must Have lists.


        Whether for your front hall, banquet hall, resort function or your local reception hall/barn dance, Burlap is ideal. It is a strong, durable, color and light fast. It’s biodegradable and carbon neutral (meaning it balances the carbon dioxide required for it’s production and transport with the carbon dioxide the Jute plant removes from the air we breathe.) Burlap is the ultimate eco friendly fabric and the most fashionable table linen fabric today.
(Photo courtesy of blog.sussexpromotions.co.uk )


How To Eliminate Burlap’s Odor
Being Eco-friendly, however, doesn’t mean that it’s absolutely perfect in every way. There’s no getting around it… fresh burlap — while a thing of unparalleled beauty — has a earthy scent. The odor’s strength depends on how the cloth was finished, how it was stored and a variety of other factors. Our Burlap is refined and contains no additive or Formaldehyde which is found in many other Burlap fabrics being sold that are inferior quality or imported.
  Unless I need to use my Burlap right away, I simply place my new Burlap tablecloths and table runners in my screened in porch (in fair weather) or the garage (during the rainy season.) It takes about a week to notice a big difference. Those with sensitive noses sometimes say that a trace of ‘eau de Burlap’ can still be detected, but I don’t find this bothersome.
        If you are in a hurry to recover that old chair frame or use your new Burlap table linens, simply take a slightly damp washcloth and rub it over the fabric’s surface. Flip the cloth to the other side and repeat. The Burlap will need to dry off, but this usually only takes the better part of an afternoon. Dissolving a bit of baking soda in warm water before dipping in your washcloth is also helpful. Just be sure not to add too much baking soda as this can leave a white residue.
  


How To Clean Burlap
Although nearly carefree, there are times when your burlap may need laundering. Whether a wedding guest drips chocolate sauce on your burlap tablecloth or your curtains seem a bit dusty, the first step in cleaning Burlap is to give it a good shake and let it air out on a sunny day.  Sometimes this
is all it takes.

 Tougher stains can be removed by gently dabbing the surface with a washcloth dipped in a mixture of vinegar and warm water. Rinse with plain water.
        When all else fails, wash the Burlap in a sink or bathtub using a small amount of gentle liquid detergent. Feel free to swish around the water but resist active agitation. Agitation can cause the fabric to release fuzz (short fibers) or fray at the edges (which is why you WON’T want to put your Burlap into the washing machine in the first place!)

For stubborn creases, choose a low heat setting and cover the area with cheesecloth. Press along the crease line on both sides, using the iron’s mister. Be patient, this really works!


For those that need a Burlap that can be machine washed, Premier Table Linens also offer the Havana Faux Burlap which is 100% Polyester but yet looks like Jute Burlap. 

Check out this Ralph Lauren Lauren inspired Burlap Ruffled Tablecloth



Sunday, June 1, 2014

Heather & Fred Mungai Wedding – April 27, 2014

Heather found my listing on Google and contacted me to set up a consultation.  I met Heather and Fred along with their sweet little daughter Coleen on October 27, 2013 at a local coffee shop. I fell in love with Coleen on the spot and became her Mama that day.




















Heather was so excited about planning the perfect wedding to marry the love of her life. They had already booked St. Marks Chapel at the Historic Mordecai for April 27, 2014 on a Sunday. Our consultation went perfectly as we went through what they envisioned for their dream come true wedding ceremony.



I conducted the day before rehearsal in the chapel which was important working in such a small space.


Coleen got to practice the Sand Blending as well as have fun with everyone.


April 27th arrived bathed in sunshine!

The guest book table



The inside of the chapel was beautifully decorated by ‘Sweeter Then Tea’ event designs.


When I arrived an hour before the ceremony time, the violinist Kevin Yen from Arioso Strings was playing relaxing music.






The photographer Durban Rhine Photography getting all the shots from the bride’s hair & makeup to the end of the reception.

He always has a second photographer so you have pictures from 2 different angles and 2 locations.




And the wedding Begins!



The Bridesmaids with the Flower girl and Ring bearer begin the walk.



Heather’s Father Mike Fournier escorts her down the aisle



The father presents the bride 


Fred’s brother Herman, reads ‘What is a Family’


Heather & Fred chose the Mother's Rose Presentation Ceremony, here they give Roses to their Mothers

 

Fred and Heather tell each other of their love


With this Ring…….


Rev. Heart says a Ring Blessing



Heather and Fred’s Daughter Coleen is included in the Family Sand ceremony using a sand frame.


The groom lifts the veil to reveal his brides face 




The first kiss as husband and wife


Our newly married couple Jump the Broom to begin their life together


Emerging from the chapel as Mr. & Mrs. Mungai


Samantha poses with the happy couple


On to the reception!
Mordecai offers couples the beautiful lawn space to hold their reception.


The day ends with this perfect ‘LOVE’ photo!